The fundamental focus of this blog is all to do with improving intimate relationship with your lover, presumably. It’s as simple as that! Nothing less, nothing more. A quick heads up before we get started: this blog is intended for couples that are already in a healthy and thriving relationship. If you are in a relationship that lacks chemistry or genuine connections, by all it means; risk it all and give it try. In order to spice up your intimate play and take it to the next level, you have to get the basic right. For starter, you must fancy the hell out of each other. You have to be comfortable around each other. She might be into golden showers, but you don’t know this because you don’t know her kinks. So, it helps being comfortable around each other to the point that you know everything about one another.
Synchronize masturbation
Two sex-hungry lovebird, staring at each other, touching themselves in the presence of each other. Synchronize masturbation is the ultimate windows to the soul, locking eyes with your sexually stimulated lover as she plays with her wet pussy, and she’s staring right back at you. Watch her sit back, with legs wide open as she slowly pushes a big fat dildo inside her pussy. In return, she is staring at you as you have your way, masturbating with a pocket pussy. It’s magical, locking eyes as you both climax. Your brain flooded with oxytocin and dopamine, and all the good, positive-feeling chemicals.
Netflix and chill
In a healthy and thriving relationship, where the is Netflix and chill, fucking always follow shortly after. The real question is how soon – or rather, how early into the movie before your hands ends up inside each other’s pants? Netflix and chill should always be on the card. In a thriving intimate relationship, you don’t even process that you’re Netflix and chilling, all you know is; one moment you’re watching a film, and the next – you’re in full bondage gear with your submissive girl tied up and dangling from the ceiling. There are times during Netflix and chill that the dude is actually interested in that stupid film, this is when you girl needs to divert their attention back to you. Truth be told, there is nothing sexier than witnessing a sexually charged cute girl, masturbating, and looking at you with those seductive eyes. So, when your partner is too busy watching heads gets blown on TV, you do what you have to do. Whilst sitting right beside them, use one of your cheap dildos and go to work. When he eventually turns his head to look at you because your loud moaning over-powered that stupid film he was watching. Only then you sexually finger call him, to let him come and get it.
Spontaneous fucking
Next time before fucking your other half, look deep within you and find your other self – your better self – your alter ego. You need to be the best version of yourself before giving your lover that good-good loving. Spontaneous fucking is the mastery of amazing sex, it’s about taking the lead and surprising your partner during sex. So, let that animal instinct kick in and fuck her all over the house. Surprise her by doing that thing you know she likes, but she’s too embarrassed to ask. Surprise her with a thumb in her ass as you pound her from behind. Lean forward and grab her neck before whispering in her ear that you “want to put in her ass”. Gentlemen, if you or the supposed better version of you has a weak sex game, you can make up for it by surprising her with Pink Toys in the bedroom. Spice up the bedroom antics by introducing sex toys for couples.
Sex role play
There is always some element of truth when role playing. Nobody just cast themselves in a scene where they are at the receiving end of an amazing blowjob by a nympho-chick, just for the sake of acting. They do that because they want to get the best blowjob from a nympho-chick. This is why role playing is loved by all, you get to act out all your sexual desires and kinks. The only difference with this acting is that it’s happening for real, how ironic?
Horny yoga instructor
There is nothing sexier than seeing a thick girl with a jelly-like big ass (personal preference) in a yoga pants. For the sake of acting, you get to feel on those big ass as she assumes the cat stretching position. When the time comes, you slowly pull those yoga pants down before going to work.
Massage therapist fucks a client
Massage leading to sex is very common in relationship, but you must remember that the whole point of role playing, is trying something different. So, you can spice things up by acting out a scene where a massage therapist seduces a client.
Step siblings fucking
Yup! Step siblings fucking is a thing, and if your filthy mind ever wonders how it will be to fuck your un-related sibling, now its chance to act it out with partner.
Doctor or nurse
There is something about seeing a sexy girl in a sexy fantasy lingerie, like the naughty secretary costume or the night service maid costume, it just does it for every straight guy. Now you guys get manifest your wildest dream, as you act out your doctor or nurse’s adventure whilst wearing some raunchy sex outfit.
Sexual activity games
The ultimate way of spicing up your intimate play, is by engaging in sexual activities – not the actual ‘fucking’ activity, but the sex game activity. If you need further clarity, try playing the game twister with your partner, but naked, how’s that for a twist? Not only does sexual activity games adds some elements of spice in your sex life, but your overall relationship grows, it flourishes and becomes much more formidable. Imagine your life consisting of laughter, love, and a whole lot of fucking? The ultimate triple-threat! That can be your reality, and all you have to do is play some sex games. If you are not up for playing twister game naked with your lover, try playing truth or dare instead, and watch how steamy things quickly get. There are a lot of fun, sex games out there to try, just shop around and have fun with your partner.
Final say
Sex is the best thing that can ever happen to mankind, it is everything. It is a catalyst to flourishing and healthy relationships. To simply put it, sex makes everything better. However, one must note that not every sex will be amazing. In fact, sex is only a portion of the equation. Amazing sex can only happen when two people share all the right emotions, such as love, hate and lust. Sex without emotion is ‘empty sex’. There must be a genuine like for it to feel good. Once you eventually find someone that you want to fuck all day and night, spice it up even more by trying the above tips.